No Stressful Decisions
God gifted us life to enjoy and to develop the inner qualities of us. As we live in the society and family, we need to develop some critical as well as emotional decisions and many a times it happens that we don’t get enough time to think each and every angle of the decisions and to reconfirm some of the important decisions. Still the life is going on and due to the fast and rapid speed of our life, even after making many efforts we are forced to take such decisions again and again.
In almost all the major decisions it is a general experience that we are forced by many circumstances and influence of various emotions which never allow us to take the decision of our choice. But, this is life. I know so many people who are just bound by their fast and furious decisions and now they are helpless to turn the decisions. It’s a general nature of us that we are biased by our emotions and can never think neutrally in most of the decisions. In some cases, it is still tolerable but few decisions are such for which we won’t be able to forgive our self even after years to come. So, not to repeat those bitter decisions, we are now putting some points, which should be referred by every one of us before making all the decisions under pressures.
1. Know the Situation
A must doing process before taking any decisions is to know the situation thoroughly. Even let it be the smallest and lowest important situation of our life, we never take a step before negotiating with the actual matter. For example, even if we are going to buy an air ticket, we just confirm all the details of the destination, flight details and also the class in which we are going to fly; now, even in just a flying decisions if we pay this much attention, then in any case how can we take a decision of life without paying much attention or at least not knowing even the basic facts related to the topic. Knowledge is power. The better you understand the decision and all that it entails, the more likely you are to make a good decision. The first step of the process is to put your research skills to use and study the relevant material, study it until you’re intimate with it.
Remember, the best decision is the decision taken by the individual own self. Explore as many as research techniques as you can, just make sure that you don’t rely on other’s sayings, decisions and experiences. Mind that the decision power and the situation differ person to person so it is not necessary that if one person is benefited by a decision, then even we will be. Make your decision seeing your ability and your power. To ask an experienced person is always a good habit. Take suggestions of all and make decision of yours.
2. Know the Outcomes
Once you start having knowledge for the things, the vision of seeing the situation will differ drastically. The vision will make you possible the fore coming problems and also the sight of seeing far. The one, who knows or even have some idea of the dangerous decisions, will never allow own self to make such decisions.
The outcome seeing is very important. After all, the best way to live is the way of making the right decision at the right time. It is also a fact that there is no one who can be perfect all the time, but at least with the vast knowledge and wider choice, we can come definitely come closer to the right decision.
It is the judgment which matters a lot in the decision making. There are so many entrepreneurs, who have made the decision as fast as the wrong decision maker takes, but there is a big gap of stress factor in both the persons. The stressed person can not make judgment as judgment can only be taken perfect with the calm and relaxed mind. So, make a judgment after seeing all the possible outcomes and also the coming situation which can occur due to wrong decision.
3. Be Committed
Great entrepreneurs and the big giants are not the persons, who are always perfect in all the decisions. Even they would have taken wrong decisions of false judgments, but they have got the guts and also they possess such an amazing potential that they turn the wrong decisions in the right decisions.
Stress occurs when the fear of some uncertain or unwanted situation comes in the mind. Fear comes in the mind, when you lack confidence on your self. The achievers have greater faith and respect for their own self. They follow the decisions of themselves, even if they are wrong as they have got the power to change the wrong situation to the right ones and also the imperfect situation to the perfect ones.
Be firm and strong and not the stubborn. There are so many cases in the world; where there are wrong decisions are changed even after many years by the experts and giants. Even the constitutional mistakes are changed by the amendments, why shouldn’t the company’s? So, make sure that either you stick to the decision and turn it into the right decision.
Be a stress free decision maker, as if there is no one perfect in the world, so make the decisions in a great relief with having all the judgments of all around situation and aspects. Get the sight of aspects and there won’t be stress.