Ten Commandments
As Lord Jesus gave Ten Commandments to the world for making life easier and elegant, here are the Ten Commandments to make life goal full and meaningful. The main difference between creatures and humans is that we live with a goal in our mind and also we can make our self aware of that goal if we desire. This specialty is not available for the creatures.
The goal achievements are not dependent on anybody else. It solely depends on own talent and desire. There are some ways, following which one can reach a state where he can create his own path. The specialty of every special person is that they live very normal. Let’s cherish this formula in the words of Gladwell:
“What surprised me most were the ordinary methods successful people use to achieve all they achieve,” he says.
You don’t need to be special to be a special person. Just follow the voice of your soul and even you can be one of the special persons. Let’s see the ten most required features of goal achievers.
- Cheer up yourself
This is one of the very basic features of the human nature. Anything we do, we are always eager to have a feedback. If a good job is done, we always wait for some appraisal or at least a few words to make a note. Even for our self, the same rule is applicable. Whenever you do something good, just have a cheer for yourself and have a healthy reward for yourself and make a good sense for the future. - Love your self
Never hate yourself and also make some improvements all the time. Even if you find some problem in your nature, don’t ever get upset and just have a confidence in your self. This is a thumb rule for achieving goals that treat your self as a child and teach in a proper manner. - Develop your qualities
Every one is born with an entity. It always differs and also there is a specialty in everyone which makes special. Try to develop tat special thing and focus on that area of your life. For example, if you are good in talking, develop a field which is requiring vocabulary qualities. So, every where just try to have a click of your goals and also develop some qualities beside. - Know your limitations
Never get irritated from your shortcomings. No one is perfect and even to be perfect, you will have to learn and remove your faults rather than hating or hiding them. Be bold enough to accept your mistakes publicly if required. Push your thoughts towards an improvement, try to focus on single targets and make a complete status. Love your qualities and learn your shortcomings. - Be small enough to learn
Always be ready for the learning process. Never say “I know that” just try to be a student always. Every situation and every person is there to teach us if we concentrate. So, even if you feel tough to get through with your own problems, ask for some one’s help who is really capable of removing your shortcomings and have faith in his abilities. - Never fight with anyone, not even you
Be cool and calm, try to make an approach which gives you pleasure of everything. Don’t try to solve the problems by fighting with people, fight with problems, not people. Go into the depth of any problem and try to solve it rather than cursing it. Even in the process of own development, never be too harsh with your own problem, just have a sense of understanding. - Surround with supers
Our thoughts and habits are always inspired by the ideals surrounding people and atmosphere. They make us doing so many things and even we think so much of them. So, have a surrounding of like minded people or the superior ones. If you want to rise, be beside that tall personalities and if you want to make no development, be with the same or down categorized people. Have brilliants beside you to earn brilliance. - Give love and time to your goals
The goals should not only be desired but they should be loved. If you don’t love them, you won’t learn them. Have an affair with your goal and just spend ample of time with your goal. Bill Gates is one of the most identical personalities and he earned the place in the computer professionals which is never earned by anyone ever. But, the more important thing is that he spent 10,000 hours with the computers before started his project. Giving time means devoting your whole self and to make a sincere attempt to be sincere. - Have a practical approach
Never be orthodox to anything. Remember, the trees that are not moving with the wind always have to suffer. Understand the situation and revise your goals according to it. Never be stiff and stick to anything. Truths also become wrongs if they are stuck with some heavy and orthodox approach. Be firm enough but at the same time be fine enough to adjust with the situations.To achieve your goals, be open to revising your goals as you go. Take your nose off the grindstone every so often…look around…and make sure you’re still on the right track. - Help others
Be kind and generous to help others in achieving your goals. Never be selfish. The main difference between animals and men is that they help others, we should retain that difference. Always have a look around and if you find some one needy, get there and help in whatever manner you can. By helping others, we are actually helping our self, and also making an opportunity for our better future.
Top of these ten qualities, I would love to tell you that quality of goal is the most important factor. If you target an amount of dollar as your life goal, it is never a comprehensive goal. You develop your quality, the earnings or the results will find you anyways. Have targets which are compatible and worth spending time and energy.
This Ten Commandments program will surely help us in setting and achieving our life goals. I would be happy to share your experiences of journey towards your goal.
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